Utilize your
Wedding Ceremony

If you are getting married, ask guests to donate to a Pakistani charity of your choice instead of spending money on gifts. It's a big sacrifice but well worth it, especially if it sets an example in your community and reminds others to share their wealth with those in need.

If some family members object, suggest a compromise. You could encourage your guests to donate to a charity of your choice but at the same time set up a bridal registry for those who would rather give a gift.

The charity you choose could be here or abroad. Selecting one with an office in the US may be a better idea since it can issue tax-deductible receipts. Your guests may see it as having more legitimacy and they can easily follow-up and contact the organization if they wish.

The next step is to inform your guests. Most families have wedding invitations printed so include information about donating to the charity on the card.

Once the cards are mailed off to guests, you need to follow up. Be subtle so your guests don't feel they are being badgered into giving a donation. If they call or e-mail to confirm their attendance,you could thank them and nonchalantly remind them about sending a donation.

On the wedding day, pass around a donation box and pledge cards from the charity and ask your guests to share a little more if they can. Make sure to thank everyone in an announcement of appreciation during the wedding.

Finally, end the night by writing out your first check as a couple to your mutually chosen charity.

Date/Time Last Modified: 6/17/2002 3:48:29 PM

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