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All Virtues,
Big and Small
By
Khalid Baig
A big hang up of our times
--- sometimes found even in those involved in Islamic work --- is the focus
on doing something big. We want to be associated with big projects. We want
to serve the cause of Islam in a big way. Big deeds, big rewards. Big success,
here and in the hereafter. Who can argue with that?
Well, though the logic appears
to be bullet proof, there actually is a problem with it. It assumes that the
reward for a good deed is based on its value as perceived by us. That
is the problem. The reward for every good deed is based on the actual goodness
in it and only Allah can judge that. That is why even after performing the greatest
meritorious acts, our salaf (predecessors) used to be worried whether or not
their deeds would be accepted. At the same time they approached even the smallest
virtues with the enthusiasm of a desperate person who knows he needs all the
help he can get. They had fully understood the message that many seemingly great
deeds may not carry much weight in the hereafter because of some inherent flaw
that the doer may not even be aware of. Yet it is possible for some apparently
minor charitable act to save a believer from hell. For example one hadith in
Bukhari and Muslim mentions the case of a woman of ill repute who once helped
a thirsty dog by making extra effort to fetch water from a well. She was saved
from hell for that small kindness alone.
That is the point of this
hadith? It is beautifully stated in another hadith: "Never belittle any
good deed." [la tahqiranna min almaroofe shaea]. We should always
remember these golden words of wisdom from the Prophet, Sall-Allahu alayhi wa
sallam. Every good deed, no matter how small, has the potential of becoming
our ticket to paradise. It just depends upon the situation in which it was performed
and the level of sincerity in our heart. Feeding water to a thirsty dog is not
an extra-ordinary event per se, but in the particular case mentioned in the
hadith it became large enough to wipe out all the sins of a very sinful person.
It certainly does not mean
that we should become complacent with sins in the hope that some small kindness
will wipe them out. No one who remembers this warning by the Prophet, Sall-Allahu
alayhi wa sallam, can do that: "Really frustrated will be the person who
follows his own desires (in violation of Allah's commands) yet entertains the
wishful thinking that Allah will forgive him." Rather the point is that
we should never miss an opportunity to do some good by considering the act too
small. We should never consider any good act beneath us.
For who knows the true value
of a small kindness or small virtue? One may simply say Alhamdu-lillah (Praise
be to Allah) with such an intense feeling that it alone tilts the scale in his
or her favor in the hereafter. Helping a destitute person with small amount
of money or just some kind words, greeting a stranger, visiting the sick, joining
in the funeral, consoling someone going through difficulty, removing something
harmful from the path, making a quiet prayer for someone in need of help, forgiving
a person who has hurt us --- none of these will make big headlines but all of
them can bring about major change in our lives.
What is true about good
is also true about evil. What seems to be a minor evil may not be small in terms
of its consequences both here and in the hereafter. As the Qur'an mentions:
"You thought
it to be a light matter while it was most serious in the sight of Allah."[Al-Noor,
24:15].
Small sins, if we become
comfortable with them, may lead us to bigger and bigger sins. "The difference
between a major and a minor sin is like the difference between a big and a small
burning piece of charcoal," says Maulana Ashraf Ali Thanvi. "Who would
willfully pick the burning charcoal with their bare hand because it is small?"
The Qur'an does make a distinction
between minor and major sins, but that distinction is meaningful only when the
sin just happened, not when it was committed on purpose. A sin, any sin, is
by definition an act of disobedience. It may be forgiven when it resulted from
human weakness. But when performed with a "so what" attitude, it becomes
defiance --- and thus a major sin.
We can begin to grasp the
wisdom behind this teaching by considering what happens in real life. Our minds
are fascinating machines that are always receiving and generating all kinds
of ideas. It would be a rare person who never received any idea for either virtue
or vice. An action idea can come from any source. Something we read or heard.
A conversation with a friend or a stranger. Some quiet reflection. Something
we saw on the street. Anything. While these things may just happen to us, what
we do with them can make all the difference in our life. If the inspiration
is for some good, normally Satan counters it by suggesting that it is too small
to be of any consequence in our life. Why bother. You are not that pious anyway,
he assures us. If it is for some vice and we are reluctant to do it, Satan assures
us that in light of other vices already in our life, it won't make any big difference.
Either way the cornerstone of this Satanic strategy is the trivialization of
both vices and virtues.
But the person who listens
to this Prophetic teaching will be able to counter this strategy. Small or big,
a virtue is a virtue. I need it. I must cease the moment. This person will find
that good deeds are connected to each other through an invisible web. Each one
is a window to the world of virtue. The goodness generated in the heart by a
seemingly small good deed may lead us to a much bigger good deed later. Thus
through this regenerative and multiplicative process, even small acts may gradually
bring a total change in one's life.
We should certainly go for
the big virtues. But we should also remember that no virtue is too small.
[reproduced with permission
from www.albalagh.net]
Date/Time Last Modified: 6/18/2002 8:05:20 AM
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